Twin flame is a powerful term, yet it is the weakest relationship at first.
The development of this relationship requires lots of efforts from both sides.
Unfortunately, many twin flames have to go through the painful stage of separation before they unite as one for eternity.
As it is the hardest time in the twin flame cycle, many twins give up and don’t understand the benefits of this separation.
Before you make any decisions, here are some things that you should know about what happens when twin flames separated:
On the runner’s end, they:
- Gets time to understand all the emotions that were felt during the twin flame encounter
- Realizes what it feels like to be with the person who is actually the part of your soul
- Knows all the mistakes that were done in the past
- Has time to know and research more about the connection they sensed
During the separation time, the twin – who has understood the beauty of this relationship – suffers a lot. There are many things that a chaser could do in that time.
#1: Stop Chasing
Yes, the foremost thing that you could do to get your twin back is to stop the chase.
Because when you are chasing your twin, they are using all of their energy in the running away from you.
Give them some time to breathe properly. When they stop running, only then they understand what is happening with him.
Stop your chase today if you want them back.
#2: Mold Yourself
Nobody is perfect! Nor you and neither your twin! The time before separation was the time your twin was not running away from you.
You might have learned what they like and what they don’t.
Wherever you are standing in your life, if you think that you could do better than that, then spend your time in improving yourself rather than grieving over your twin separation.
We are living in a world of materialism. Stop whining and initiate building yourself up, when you want your twin back.
#3: Let Them Go:
It might sound stupid, but yes, let them go because if they are your twin flame, they will get back to you.
But if he doesn’t return, then you know that many other forms of relationships are being confused with the twin flame relationship.
#4: Don’t Wait Too Much
Life is short, and you can not wait for too long for your twin flames return.
Sometimes, it is better to act then only to wait.
When you think that you have attained enough in the absence of your twin flame and you are emotionally stable, then it is wise to contact your twin.
Don’t do it too abruptly, but do it slowly; make it a new start for the both of you.
If that person is genuinely your twin flame, they won’t let you go this time.