You have heard of twin flames by now. Twin flames are the embodiment of a singular soul. Your twin flame is never far away, by using your mind and spirit you can learn to communicate with your twin flame.
Here is an in-depth explanation of a twin flame.
The Souls
You only have one twin flame, and you are both parts of the same soul. Twin flames were once part of the same oversoul then at some point, the souls split and went their separate ways.
The souls spent time apart and gained experience from many lives through reincarnation. You don’t have to meet your twin flame in one specific lifetime. Through the incarnation, you continued spending your lives separate from one another.
When are you supposed to meet your twin flame?
There is no set time; it can happen by chance. It should not stop you from experiencing other relationships with people. It’s essential you do encounter them and learn valuable lessons.
Do twin flames stay together forever after meeting up again?
Let’s assume you have met your twin flame, but both of you don’t recognise the connection. Will you be together forever? There is no guarantee. Your reunion with your twin flame is a powerful one, and one that requires mental fortitude and high level of maturity gained from many experiences and relationships from many past lives.
You may meet your twin flame, but you might not be ready for the twin soul relationship. The connection might scare you because of new sensations. It’s something entirely new for you; both of you might pull away from each other. The purpose of twins isn’t just to progress together but bring everyone around you under your wings and move forward.
Are there twin flames meeting today?
With the world finally realising some people bring out the best in them, everyone is out there looking for that specific person. More people are meeting their twin flame than ever before, and it will continue as the planet increases in vibrational frequency.
This doesn’t mean that these twins will be staying together. For the union to work critical spiritual lessons need learning.
Even after you have found each other and proclaimed your love for each other, a twin flame bond doesn’t mature until you both have full soul maturity. This can take time and effort to pull off, and it’s quite common as twin flames you might part ways for years on end from each other to deal with your emotions. Soul maturity is an essential part of twin relationship.
With everyone looking for their twin flame, few have completely mastered this relationship. These twin flames are the beacon of light for everyone, they are role models, and people aspire to find the same connection. .
Can twin flames have children?
There is a lot of discussion about this topic. While some proclaim that due to spiritual inevitability twin flames wouldn’t be able to conceive, others reject this idea and consider childbirth to be the ultimate culmination of a healthy twin flame relationship. My personal opinion is that as twin flames you can have children.
The birth of any new life is the most beautiful thing that can happen, and as twin flames, you can undoubtedly partake as well. The reason being is because the purpose of a twin flame reunion is to bring about harmony – by bearing children, you potentially enable other twin flames to meet up with their counterparts. There couldn’t be a deed nobler than that.
How long have people known about twin flames?
The concept of twin flame has been around for ages. Different names have been given to it, but it all means the same thing. Another common name people mistake for twin flames is soulmates. Soulmates are considered to be two people who are fully compatible with each other on a spiritual and physical level. The same can be said for twin flames but on much higher intensity.
In ancient history and recent times. There has always been a concept of “the one”. That one person who is expected to be everything you have dreamt of, the one person who sends shivers down your spine, the one person who finishes your sentences, the one person who you know inside and out having met for the first time.
What is the guarantee I’ll meet my twin?
You will meet your twin flame some day. The question isn’t about if you will, it’s when. You can spend many lifetimes without meeting your twin flame, but in some life, you will meet them.
Patience is a key virtue when it comes to this connection. You should also take into account that your twin flame may not be ready for you.
Many are saying; I don’t want to meet my twin flame yet. That is entirely reasonable. We all have immaturity within us that may or may not go away within any given lifetime. Some get frustrated from the wait and can fall into depression or anxiety issues, while other’s will accept the challenge and consider it as the calm before the storm.
What happens after my twin flame passes away?
Your twin flame will remain precisely that forever. You may have parted ways physically in this lifetime, but you will be reunited eventually.
Your twin flame passing away can be very traumatic. Going through this will be the most challenging stage. Your twin flame passing away may cause soul shock. However, this phenomenon can work to bring you even closer to your twin flame.
Remember that even though physically your twin flame may have passed away, but he or she lives on in spirit. You can still feel their presence, and you can connect telepathically. Learning to cope with the worldly loss will make your bond stronger when you reunite in 3D again, maybe in your next life.
Reincarnation: Can two males or two females be twin flames?
When you consider gender rules do not bind reincarnation. You can come back as male or female. It is quite easy to fathom that twin flames are not bound by gender rules either.
Faith-based ideologies have had their shackles around the world for so long. Twin flames of the same gender couldn’t live out their lives in peace. Unfortunately, that’s still the case in many countries around the world. The more progressive nations have accepted the same-gender union. More twin flames are coming together who are of the same gender.
What are the Twin Flame Signs?
Twin flames are meant to be together, and that’s not likely to change because they are mirrors. Through reincarnation and struggles of human experience, they will once again reunite whenever chance allows it. It’s important to know the signs of your twin flame, and we’re going to jump right into that.
#1: You can’t help but notice you’ve met somewhere before
You probably have but in a different life and that is why this feeling of familiarity is so prevalent. This feeling of longing and nostalgia can be overwhelming to the point you may consider it to be déjà vu. It’s important to let these emotions manifest and simmer into something strong. Which will undoubtedly happen if you have found your twin flame.
#2: You feel like they are the answer to your problems
One day you will meet someone who will bring peace and tranquillity to your life, which was never possible with anyone else. You begin to accept positive changes in your life and your experiences become more gleeful, passionate and energetic.
#3: You connect with them unlike with anyone else
Much like an orchestra with various instruments, the sounds come together to form a harmonious melody. You and your twin flame have the same harmony. You connect with them at every possible level, and that connection leads to a brighter passion.
#4: You learn more about yourself
Your twin flame will help you unveil aspects of yourself that you haven’t yet realised. Together you are meant to unlock each other’s potential in a way that wouldn’t be possible had you not been together. This, however, is a double-edged sword; there are solitary people in the world who don’t want to be examined and probed into. It will take time for them to become accustomed to the change.
#5: Your relationship is on multiple levels
Being a lover is a single branch of the tree of twin flame union. Many other things are involved. Your twin flame will not only be your lover but your guide, your mentor, your caregiver and many other things. This phenomenon occurs because twin flames are involved in more than just passion and desire.
#6: No one needs to change
This sign is crucial to understand. Your twin flame doesn’t seek to change who you are. They would accept your faults and your strengths. They would motivate you, so you are true to your identity and let you know if you are diverting from it.
#7: Nothing is Taboo
Amongst each other you share everything. Nothing would result in a situation where you two wouldn’t accept each other anymore. You and your twin flame have a deep understanding of each other, and there is never any bad blood.
#8: You begin learning new things
Emotions that may have once been dormant inside of you such as empathy will come sprawling out. If you sense you are experiencing new feelings while in the presence of your special someone. It’s more than likely that this person is your twin flame.
#9: You now have a purpose to fulfil
Things that seemed to be confusing now begin making more sense and life becomes easier. Your life has turned around towards better things. Meeting your twin flame is how you envisioned things would be. You both walk in unison and remain on track.
#10: You’re unique magnets to each other
If you have been in an on and off relationship for quite some time now, that is most likely because that person is your twin flame. You just can’t stay away from your flame because you’re unique magnets to each other and they can’t stay away from you. That is the driving force and reason behind you getting back together so many times.
#11: Reconciling can be easy, but there’s always something to learn
Sometimes twin flames will bicker and disagree about certain things. The difference is that both of you will spend more time learning from these experiences rather than quarrelling. If you find yourself having lots of constructive dialogue with your significant other that is a great sign that they are your flame.
#12: You complete each other, and not in the cliché way
If you have a brooding and mellow type personality, your flame will have a cheerful and energetic type personality. This helps twin flames realise their own shortcomings, and have someone to fill the gaps.
#13: You’re together, but you are also free
You will find many couples complaining that they feel locked and caged. This would not be the case with your twin flame. Even though you are both bound to each other, you are also free. This is because you both understand each other well.
#14: You feel like you’ve reached home
You never have to leave your comfort zone to appease your twin flame. You can be yourself, flaws and all, and they will accept you for that. When you are together, you feel at home and more importantly, comfortable in your own skin. This is achieved through dedication and devotion to understanding each other at a higher level.
#15: It’s almost instant
Your connection with your twin flame didn’t take time; it can be described as explosive. It’s like pouring gasoline on a fire. There’s no concept of a spark. It’s just a vibrant flame that is lit the moment you meet your twin flame. This moment usually leads into a euphoric emotion that many twin flames just can’t handle and sometimes resist the attraction.
#16: There isn’t a pace that doesn’t work
Whether you and your flame start off slowly or rapidly. It just doesn’t matter. The fact of the matter is you’re going to be comfortable with it. Many people have avoided relationships because they were moving too fast, but meeting your twin flame, the pace was fast. It felt natural! Due to the nature and importance of this relationship. However it is best to progress at a moderate pace. There is going to be a bang of emotions which might be difficult to deal with.
#17: You’re tailored to their needs and vice versa
Everyone has shortcomings and there isn’t a perfect person. The closest we can come to perfection is through unison. Two people diluting each others flaws to create something beautiful in tandem. If you feel your darker side is suppressed while being with someone, chances are they are your twin flame.
Twin Flame Stages in a Relationship
You don’t meet your twin flame, and it’s all perfect. You will go through many stages until your relationship has fully matured. A fully developed twin flame relationship is a sight to behold.
The relationship with your twin flame is all about intensity and explosiveness; there will be a stage when it seems like everything has gone down the drain. That’s okay; there is always the calm before the storm, once renewed you both can emerge as fully matured twin flames.
This reunion is indeed a sight to behold, not only for you and your twin but the people around you.
Stage 1: Looking for your twin flame and understanding the meaning of disappointment
At this point in your relationship, you know that they are out there and you know there is a connection. You can only hope, but it seems like a lifetime of waiting.
This waiting process is what gives the twin flame relationship the initial burst of flare. Waiting for your twin flame can make you feel many emotions like sadness, anger, worst of all anxiety and depression.
One emotion you might feel is curiosity.
This stage is twofold – the gruelling wait and as we mentioned before and the preparation. Preparation is vital to the success of a twin flame relationship. Being mentally and emotionally ready for your twin flame will be the deciding factor on whether or not the connection works in this lifetime.
The wait, however, can be disappointing for many – there are recollections of many people saying they haven’t met their twin flame yet, 65 to 70 years into their lives and understandably so, this can be quite disappointing.
Stage 2: You’re oh so close!
It could be one beautiful morning on your way to the park for a nice jog that you happen to pass by someone who instantly catches your eyes and mind. This will feel like more than just a spark, it may feel like a punch to your gut. Although physically meeting your twin flame is rare, there are other ways they may appear.
They can appear in a vision while your daydreaming but the overall result is going to be the same. Many twin flames also feel the importance of these glimpses and consider them as premonitions that they’re about to meet and engage with their flame at a physical level.
This phase is the perfect moment to spiritually, mentally and emotionally prepare yourself for your twin flame. If you have seen your twin flame and the energy feels like they are the one, then you have to prepare yourself for disapointment as they might not accept it.
Stage 3: Finally there!
You have finally met your twin flame. The person you have been longing for many lifetimes. The explosion of euphoria can be unsettling if you’re not ready for this. Love will be the word of the day for many days to come.
The longer you stay together, the more profound your bond will be. The intensity of the connection will almost seem like it’s straight out of the movies but rest assured this is entirely different.
From this point on changes will start to occur and your previous experiences will make you stronger in dealing with them.
You might feel like you’re always falling, disoriented like an infant or even at a loss for words when you’re around your flame. This attraction will be something entirely new for you, and it will be unlike anything you have experienced before.
Stage 4: All is perfect
You have met your twin flame, you’ve fallen in love, and maybe now you sit across from them at the dinner table.
Trials and tribulations were leading you to the perfect relationship that can’t be tainted or scarred. At this point, you will feel everything you have ever asked for has come true. Your flame was the last piece of the puzzle, and now you feel complete.
This is now your paradise, and you intend to keep it that way. Once this phase comes to an end, new trials and challenges will besiege your relationship, and it will be a matter of true grit to see if you persevere.
Stage 5: The Crash after the Rush
You’re now past the euphoric stages of your relationship, and it is now time to live as a constructive unit. Remember that we previously mentioned that your twin is going to be the gaps in your personality.
If you’re the brooding person, they will be the cheerful one. This will cause a clash of ideologies.
I know from personal experience that I can’t deal with a brooding personality myself for too long. This will lead to arguing and fighting and tug of war to see who gains control. This is the stage of the relationship where both twins must learn to grow into each other rather than against each other.
Twin flames who have passed this stage have come out to say that they found this phase to be the moment when the relationship fully solidified. Many have later realised that disagreement from their loved ones was not a sign of contempt but one of constructive criticism. In any case, insecurities will run wild during this phase, and both twin flames must remain strong.
Stage 6: Paradise is running away?
At this point it would seem like Nirvana is attainable. One twin caves and the other one is grasping at straws.
Even though one flame wants to run away, it isn’t because of you. It’s becuase they have not matured. In a twin soul relationship there will be the runner, and the chaser. The chaser is more mature as they will be looking to make things right. The runner however will find reasons to distance themselves.
This phase must be endured by both twins in any way possible to come out as strong as ever. In some cases, one twin can leave for a very long time, only to come back and give it another go (twin flames always come back together). If the two flames reconcile, their relationship will come out with incredible strength.
With both the twin flames ready to discuss their issues more openly. egos will break down. Emotional barriers will also break down, and a feeling of acceptance will start to seep in. In this phase the twin flames will learn the most about each other.
As they continue breaking down barriers they will communicate more efficiently. Insecurities will be laid out bare and open to discussion. This process will also make the flames substantially more comfortable with each other.
They’ll learn that their counterpart is the right person for them as they reconcile each difference. This process should be taken slowly and with care. Just because you’ve got to this phase doesn’t mean it’s only moving forward from here.
If one twin feels they are being exploited or not feeling the empathy, you will end up back in the previous stage. However healing past this stage, and you will find yourself at the finish line.
Stage 7: A reunion of fire
As the relationship progresses, you won’t notice when you finally enter this final phase. As the insecurities and problems dwindle, you will both begin to understand each other in a unified manner. This is the moment you will start working towards a single goal rather than your own goals.
Purity and oneness begins here. The relationship reaches the pinnacle, and the twin flames embark on their enlightened and unified journey.
Together they will bring hope to everyone; they will be a beacon of radiating light. People will see the profound connection.
What’s wonderful about this phase is that you are not forcing the relationship.
Soulmates signs, who are they?
A soulmate is not your twin flame. Soulmates are highly compatible souls that work your being. This has a variety of positive and negative effects.
100% compatibility means that both of you will have more or less the same outlook on life, the same way of doing things and dealing with others.
This won’t be the case with every soulmate union, but this is something you won’t find in a twin flame union.
Soulmates will never stick to each other forever. Soulmates may seem like the perfect match, they aren’t truly meant for each other. All of the feelings you may feel with your soulmate can be very similar to the feelings you will have when you finally meet your twin flame.
Furthermore, you can have multiple soulmates throughout your life. consider the diversity of the human soul, there’s bound to be many combinations of personality that work well with you.
Here are some signs that you have met your soulmate:
- Silence speaks volumes – even when you’re not communicating, you both understand each other.
- Mutually agreeing to everything isn’t a problem. You and your soulmate work, think and play on the same wavelengths.
- Past relationships are easy to forget and move on from when you meet your soul mate.
- You will be your true self with your soulmate – limiting the barriers you put up.
- The attraction feels raw and very intimate – almost if it’s pure energy.
Difference between twin flame love and Soulmate love
Soulmate love is all about the limelight, no dirt and grime comes along with it. This bliss is virtually never present in a twin flame relationship. Things may start off the same, but through the stages twin flames always clash.
This clash isn’t due to hatred or animosity towards each other; it is precisely due to the insecurities and shadows that come out. When someone finally comes calling out the faults you have, you won’t accept it – you will deny it, you will fight it. One day you will see it as the truth.
There is only one twin flame, you either make it work or you don’t. You have this one chance. You have a multitude of soulmates, who are similar to your energy and the connection will be mutual.
Twin Flame Telepathy
Telepathy between twin flames is very common, as the relationship began this way and it will remain as it progresses. Twins had this energetic connection when they were a singular soul. Since the souls seperated the cord remained attached.
Telepathic communication is never lost or forgotten. As people increase their mental and spiritual fortitude, they can connect with their twin flame telepathically.
Twin flames have been known to communicate with each other for years on end telepathically without ever meeting each other.
Logically enough the telepathic connection becomes stronger once the twin flames have met and moved fully past all of the stages of their relationship. A fully matured twin flame union has the strongest telepathic capabilities.
Twin flame runner, why it happens.
Whether it is twin flames or soulmates, after all, we are humans. We come with our unique set of flaws that can be quite diverse and complicated. Everyone has personality pros and cons, and twin flames exhibit these same flaws.
The initial reuniting of twin flames will always be intense and explosive, but after the dust settles and they begin to exhibit their personality traits with each other, consequences begin to occur.
Now it is understood that the best person for you will always be your twin flame, since they are your mirror, they reveal your weaknesses and flaws. This may not sit well with you, and you might see it as a direct attack and would create distance from your twin flame.
Purposely creating distance with your twin flame is known as twin flame running. A twin flame runner can’t handle the truth they are hearing, which leads to seclusion, and rather than acceptance and creating progress.
However a twin flame runner can only avoid their twin, there will come a point where egos will melt away and a proper union can begin.