Do you feel a strong sense of familiarity when you meet someone? Like you know this person from a different time? It will dumbfound you, but it will also pull you closer towards them, because of a strong sense of curiosity bubbling inside your mind.
You’ll feel an incredible longing for something you never even wished for. You’ll feel a divine connection with this person. You’ll feel as if you know a lot about them already without even talking to them.
If this person transforms into a lover, it will impact your relationship with a tempting intensity. You’ll feel a crushing feeling inside your bones, unlike anything you’ve ever felt before because of this unprecedented connection you share with them.
Unfortunately, these are signs of a karmic relationship, and it’s almost never good for you. You tend to endure situations that are actually destroying your self-esteem and holding you back from realising your self-worth.
If you’re used to the self-hatred inside of you, you’ll feel like there’s nothing wrong even if other people make you feel that way.
You’re bound to your familiar old patterns because you willingly wish to be subsumed by acute loneliness and despair than being plunged into the unknown.
If you’re in a relationship that is under the curse of karma, you need to uplift this curse to open your eyes to the reality. If you don’t, you’re going to surround yourself with negativity and old patterns of limiting behaviour.
You don’t even realise it, but you’re subconsciously repeating these patterns and putting your future at risk.
Distinguishing between Love and karma
Distinguishing between loving and karmic relationships is easy. Love is supposed to reassure and calm you, whereas karmic relationships fill your life with negativity and destruction.
If you’re in a relationship with someone who deliberately takes you for granted, mistreats you, and takes advantage of your love, you’re under the haunting hypnosis of karma.
You’re well aware of your situation but you still to choose to stay with someone for inexplicable reasons. You might have insane physical intimacy with them, and that might fool you into thinking that this relationship is worth saving, but it’s not.
It’s just a ploy of Karma to skew you towards further disaster.
Stage of acceptance
If you want to break free from the bewitching spell of Karma, you have first to accept that you are indeed trapped in a karmic relationship.
Once you understand that your union with your lover is ill-fated, you can proceed to remedy your condition.
You’re the captain of your destiny
You have to take matters into your own hands, and realise that you make your own destiny, and you shape your own path. Otherwise, you’re going to leave things as they are, and never going to do something about your debilitating situation.
Seek Help and speak out
To get rid of the familiar old patterns, you need to evolve and grow spiritually. However, that isn’t always a piece of cake. At the time, it might seem impossible.
That’s why you need to reach out for help and talk to someone. Let someone share your burdens and help you get out of this trench of karma.
Learn from your mistakes
Finally, when you’ve made the hard decision of fighting your karma, you need to stay strong. You have to tell yourself with conviction that you’re never going to let anyone destroy your happiness and alleviate your self-esteem.
Is it a karmic relationship if you two have a solid connection, still love each other deeply, so intricately but cannot be together? Its like there is something stopping us from being together. We get pulled back to each other like magnets. We want or love no one else and we crave and desire no one but each other, but then it goes sour with no trust, possessiveness, jealousy, neediness, all attention or none at all, obsessive qualities, and then break (stonewalling) for hours, days, weeks. Power struggles, mirror, projections, intense crazy intimate soulful respectful safe beautiful love making – a deep connection like no other. Nurturing, mother like figure for the man, teacher, healer. Understanding, empathic, sensitive, rebellious, combative, drama, exaggeration…..man believes its a twin flame connection….all these traits and characteristics make up this relationship and unable to be together but long for each other. So much trauma and baggage brought from childhood. So much torture and pain when apart, only to feel like we belong to each other….no others… a commitment made in the stars that I belong to him and he to me. Unable to move on, try with others but useless. I personally do not want to be touched by another man. But we cannot be together as something always clashes sending us far apart for days, weeks and at its extremes months. This has been going on its 5th year. Is it Karmic? Twin Flame? Just a relationship that didnt work? Frustrating and endless amounts of suffering….but the love never dies…
This sounds exactly like my relationship. Word for word. I’m speechless. It’s like a roller coaster ride that never ends. Don’t know if its a twin flame or karmic relationship. I seem to be the only one who see and understand everything that is happening but cannot ever control the outcome. I feel helpless so many times. I feel because he is married he is blind to what is actually happening even though he himself are confused many times as well and questions what we go though.
First off hed married! Hands off!🤦🏽♀️