Feeling detached from twin flame? There may come a time within our twin flame relationship that the exciting, heart thumping intensity of the powerful spiritual connection seems to fizzle and putter out.
We might start to feel disillusioned, we may lose the drive to continue on our journey, and we may be left feeling detached.
That is perfectly fine. This is perfectly normal. Don’t sweat it.
Feelings of detachment from our twin flame can cause us to become distressed that perhaps we have misidentified the relationship. Doubt about the whole spiritual process might consume us.
We might second guess the machinations of the universe and the concept of twin flame unity altogether.
Feeling Detached From Twin Flame
But in reality what is happening is a natural part of the process.
In fact, it can represent spiritual progress. We are on the right track.
A Timeout
What we are experiencing when we feel detachment from our twin flame is a period of spiritual selfishness – which isn’t as bad as it sounds!
The twin flame spiritual journey is a shared one for sure, but it is also a journey for us as individuals.
While we must journey together, raising our vibration levels and teaching each other our karmic lessons, we must also travel alone when necessary.
After all, we have our own problems as well as each others.
The feelings of detachment we are experiencing is a signal that we should take a timeout from the spiritual aspect of the twin flame relationship.
We should continue working on ourselves, but it is time within the relationship to take a step back from the progress we have made and relax for a bit.
Without stopping and taking a breath, we cannot endure the difficulties of journeying towards ascension.
A Little Self Love
Both of us should take some time to address old wounds that we have perhaps pushed to the back of our minds.
We may even find that we have recently been thinking about old relationships and past events that irked us or damaged us.
We might even become periodically obsessed with the past.
Don’t ignore it. It’s a sign that we still have some individual work to do.
The chances are we have been neglecting ourselves as individuals while we concentrate our efforts on our twin flame relationship.
It’s natural to do that, everybody does.
So maybe we should take a few days to yourself.
Visit family, get in touch with nature, be alone for a while.
A little distance on occasion is a healthy thing for any relationship – it is absolutely necessary for the incredibly intense twin flame relationship.
And once we have put our house in order as it were.
We will be in a better frame of mind and healthier in spirit.
Our twin flame will thank us for it, and we will thank them for the same.
Things will go back to how they used to be.
Or, preferably, the feelings of detachment will dissolve.
In all likelihood, when we return it will be with renewed energy, compassion and love for each other.
Thank you thank you thank you ..I thought I was going crazy nobody is really talking about this.
I have been detached from my twin for over a year now, communication just recently started backup, there was a tower moment back in July.
Even though he detached from me for a while also, he just kept coming back and sometimes the situations and the communication was not always Progressive..Now we’re back in communication telepathically we both have matured and his communication has a lot more clarity.. he wants to come visit for Christmas but because I’m so detached I’m not really feeling it. I told him he would have to get a hotel and he can come by for a couple of hours.
That’s the best I can do for now.
But I guess I want to know is what happens from this point, will my feelings change or do we just stay in communication mode only I don’t know. Thanks a lot
L.
Thank you for this article! There has been no physical communication between us for 7 months but there has been some telepathic communication. I’ve sent some texts and he blocked them but I understand now that it’s because he didn’t want to deal with his feelings. Usually after I send a text, I wake up the next morning feeling disconnected and I start thinking I am freaking crazy.
I’ve been obssessed with the past for about a month now, replaying old situations in my head over and over again and everytime one issue is resolved, another comes up. Namely there has been a lot of anger and frustration in my life due to a lot of injustices and disrespect I have experienced and didn’t process that anger but instead internalized it as something wrong with me when there is nothing wrong with me, I just live in a society that has been hostile against my skin color and my reproductive organ.
I’ve been thinking a lot about past relationships, mostly the good parts. Been thinking about my life before I met him. Just, yea… obsessed with the past, trying to make sense of the present because none of this shit makes any logical sense lmao.
But thanks for explaining that this disconnection I feel is nothing to worry about or be afraid of, that it is necessary and much needed. I understand now as this past month has been really freaking intense. I will enjoy this alone time with no worries.
Hey, RichestBitxh1986.
See you got the lesson and you have gained your power back from it.
Well done you!!
I feel the need to recommend a book to you, to help you with this great work you are doing. It helped me immensely and I still use the concepts learned today.
Oh wow, I looked it up and he has done a new one as well. Here they are.
The Power of Now: Unabridged: A Guide to Spiritual Enlightenment
and the new one…
Practicing the Power of Now: Meditations and Exercises and Core Teachings for Living the Liberated Life
Both by Eckhart Tolle. Let us know how you go.
Namaste