Dealing With Silent Treatment From Your Twin Flame
The twin flame relationship is like a rocky boat, lapping back and forth in rough waters.
One twin flame runs, while the other chases.
But, what makes things even more difficult and unbearable is the mind-baffling phenomenon of the “silent treatment.”
In its wake, you are left with the horrible misery of isolation.
Your twin flame blocks you on Social Media, refuses to meet you for dinner, and generally just rips you apart from their life.
So, what is Silent Treatment?
Typically, the silent treatment is self-explanatory.
In an ordinary relationship, it’s when one partner completely ignores the existence of their partner.
A visual example of this is when a partner is sipping their soup or watching TV, and their lover is trying to divert their attention towards them, but they hardly furnish a response.
At best, a skirting “hm” or a tepid half-nod is reciprocated.
However, in a twin flame relationship, the silent treatment isn’t as straightforward.
There are never long, protracted sequences of non-verbal punishment.
Even during the separation period (the chaser and runner phase), communication is never completely cut off.
Twin flames still have “twin flame telepathy” that enables them to communicate subconsciously, even without their knowledge.
This is mainly because a twin flame relationship isn’t your run-of-the-mill relationship.
It’s a 5D connection transcending the earthly concept of ego — a union between souls having the potential to raise the vibration of the universe.
Materialistic 3D concepts have no power on these kinds of associations.
Second-guessing your twin flame’s behavior based on these “worldly” concepts isn’t going to lend you the right idea.
So, where do you find the answers?
How do you break through this nerve-wracking silent treatment?
How do you identify its mysterious patterns?
What is your best course of action?
To find the important answers, first, we have to understand why a twin flame condemns us to the horrible punishment of silent treatment, to begin with.
Why is Your Twin Flame Punishing you with Silent Treatment?
The twin flame relationship is a complex maze.
You have to deal with two contrasting dynamics: the psyche of the runner and the chaser.
As the chaser, you’re bound with the desperation to reunite with your runner.
On the other hand, the runner is battling with their own abandonment and commitment issues, and a slew of other emotions they haven’t yet resolved.
You can try to coax, or even go as far as forcing them to communicate, but it’s not going to translate into anything.
The fact of the matter is they themselves don’t understand the nuts and bolts of their emotions.
They don’t know how to confront and accept their demons and therefore live in constant fear of their insecurities and traumas.
This makes them act erratically and irresponsibly.
You have to realize that no twin flame journey is the same.
Each one has its own sufferings and difficulties and patterns of resolution.
However, there are some steps you can take to improve your chances of dealing with your twin flame’s silent treatment.
How to Tackle a Twin Flame’s Silent Treatment?
Verify the Twin Flame Connection Is Real.
First, you have to make sure the connection you share with your partner is, in fact, a twin flame connection.
There’s no point in pursuing someone who’s not meant for you.
Some people stay stuck in toxic relationships just because they think their lover is “the one.”
This puts them at a dangerous disadvantage.
Consequently, they continue to endure all kinds of emotional abuse for all the wrong reasons.
Verifying whether the twin flame connection’s authenticity is not an easy thing. However, a twin flame reading can help in this regard.
There’s so much emotional turmoil twin flames undergo that sometimes they need a heightened understanding of their conditions.
As an alternative, you can even use your intuition to identify the most prominent signs of a twin flame relationship.
Can you physically reach out to your twin flame, transcending barriers of time and space?
Do you feel like you’ve always known them, even though you’ve only met a couple of times?
Do you have this intense perpetual energy in your love that refuses to fade, despite the constant conflict in your relationship?
If so, you probably have a twin flame agreement.
Understand That the Silent Treatment Is A Blessing in Disguise
No one likes being ignored. However, you need to realize that a twin flame’s silence serves a purpose.
Ever heard that silence is the language of the universe?
Well, it’s true. Through silence, the universe suppresses the ego and increases the intensity of pain.
Consequently, pain makes us confront our emotional insecurities.
It starts the healing process so we can understand the things that wound our insides.
When you give your twin flame the time to process their suffering, they will realize that things get worse for them in your absence.
They will come to terms with the fact that running away doesn’t help.
And they have to deal with what the universe is holding them accountable for.
They need to “hear” the cries of their soul.
Perhaps they had a string of “failed relationships that plagued them with trust issues.
Or they were abandoned at birth.
Whatever the reasons, they need the silent treatment to “heal” themselves.
You have to realize that the silent treatment isn’t directed towards you — it’s actually a bitter medicine they have to take for their own betterment.
Put Yourself in Their Shoes
Accepting that the silent treatment is a necessity to heal your twin flame relationship.
However, one thing that always helps is seeing the world from your partner’s perspective — it’s the hallmark of a truly empathetic person.
You have to find it in your heart to accept that the person you’re going to spend eternity with is going through a terrible time.
They have had a distressing past, and they won’t merely “get over stuff.”
They will need your support, even though it’s from afar.
Most importantly, they will require assurance that once they deal with their fears, they will have you waiting on the other side.
I seem to be in the middle of a twin flame experience. I had just lost ‘everything’, culminating with my husband asking for a divorce. Was in a terrible state (I’ve done spiritual work trying to heal from childhood mistreatment). There were like five synchronicities all at once; I met a much younger man (who would be my “ideal” partner objectively – achiropractor, I have back issues) who got a Reiki treatment from me. During the appt, he made a few interesting remarks that got me little off kilter. Then at the end, gave me an immense sense of agency I’d never felt. At that moment, a cupid’s arrow flew from him to me into my solar plexus and over the next few days, weeks, months, now 15 months, I have had a sense of exhilarating flame love ecstasy sensation. I was freaked of course and tried to repress it. Felt (Feel) like I was dying without him…and yet, was suicidal from all the loss I had actually experienced.
At one point I begged him to tell me,”no” he hadn’t meant what he said personally- and that we might be having a twin flame event. at that moment, some big ball of energy went thwump through my upper abdomen. He didn’t take back anything he said. Then, despite my near frantic phone call once to his office, he has refused to release me from his spell of words. I wrote all about this on my drjenwyman-clemons.com blog.
I’ve been an MD for 30 years and was a hard sciences major (trying to prove that I could make it without love after that childhood)
We still aren’t a number but I constantly see his eyes..nuzzling, holding, loving. Oh, and I have very frequent sightings of 11:11- I even got 11:11 on 11/11 accidentally at the supermarket! Wow. there are very interesting things going on in my natal and progressed astrology chart.
Pretty cool, eh?
The whole process has forced me to become some kind of priestess writing about power.
I really enjoy reading your articles, but I confess that I do not believe in the concept of twin flames. I know many do, and I respect that, but I pose two questions and maybe you can answer them. Please know that they come from a place of concern and not insensitivity.
1) Is there a point where the perceived twin flame relationship “tips” into something bordering on unwanted/mo longer desired attention that eventually becomes a one-sided obsession that can be harmful to the recipient?
2) How does one recognize that point in the relationship where you realize that you’ve crossed the line and are on a path that could be emotionally and psychologically detrimental to either party?
There are two reasons that influence my point of view, the first is that I was the victim of a stalker while in my early 20’s, who was convinced that we were meant to be despite my every effort to get rid of him. The 2nd is that I am an evidential medium, and I rely on tangible “evidence” to support what I see, hear and feel through confirmation by the person receiving the messages. I am not a skeptic, but rather a person that has an immense love for humankind and does not like to see suffering of any kind. Thank you.