Is Attraction Mutual? 5 Signs You Will Notice
We have all been in a situation where we feel attracted to someone, and we want to know if they are attracted to us too.
It can be hard to tell if the person you feel attracted to is attracted to you too, but it’s important to know the answer.
Nobody likes to be in a position where they are always confused about whether the person likes them back or not.
It’s important to understand where you stand in a relationship with someone you feel attracted to.
There are a lot of ways through which you can tell if they are attracted to you too. Some of these are even backed by science.
How They Behave Around You
The way a person behaves around you can reveal a lot about how they feel about you.
Do they keep checking their phone when you are talking to them? Do they keep looking here and there? Do you feel they are not paying attention to what you are saying?
Do they look like they are in a hurry to leave? If you answered yes to all or most of these questions, then the chances are that they are not attracted to you.
However, if you know they are listening to you and trying to maintain eye contact, then the attraction is mutual.
Eye Contact
Eye contact is essential, and it’s one of the easiest ways to tell if someone is attracted to you.
If the person is attracted to you, they will keep trying to look at you, especially when you’re looking away.
Eye contact tends to release the chemical oxytocin which increases empathy and communication.
People make eye contact with people they feel attracted to because it helps them feel closer to the person.
How Close They Stand to You
Another thing that will give you an idea if the attraction is mutual is how close they stand to you.
People who are attracted to us will try to stand as close to as possible.
If you want to know whether the person you’re attracted to is attracted to you too, then keep an eye on how close they stand to other people and compare it with how close they stand to you.
Remembering the Little Aspects
If they remember the smallest of things about you, then that is a sure sign that the attraction is mutual.
Nobody has the energy or the time to remember the little things about someone, but people who are attracted to you will try to remember almost every single thing you tell them.
They will also ask you a lot of questions about you, they will try to talk to you about you as much as they can.
This is because when someone is attracted to you, they want to get to know you better.
Physical Reactions
If all of these signs aren’t enough to convince you that the attraction is mutual, then notice if they get nervous around you.
Do they stutter a lot when they talk to you? Do they sweat? Do you think they act too shy or awkward around you? It’s probably because they are attracted to you.
